Surgical Strike On Lust For Female Body
9 Intellectual Ways To Counter Lustful Attraction For Female Body
Lust for the female body in a student’s Life deviates him from his studies in the wrong direction. It wastes his time by running after girls and stimulates sexual feelings in the mind and body, completely removing his focus from studies and self-development. It also does not help for a long-lasting relationship between girlfriend and boyfriend.
Below find some ways to counter this Lustful attraction.
Use Power of Visualization
a) If we see we all are made up of the same 5 Things/Tattvas- Land, Air, Water, Space, and Fire. Imagine the difference between your hand and her hand.
- Colour of Skin
- Shape of Hand- Soft and Hard Skin..etc.
But in the end, we all are made up of the same Matter/Thing. So, tell your mind why I get attracted to that body. If we are made up of the same thing.
b) Body is not the real Identity- Male and female bodies are just the different coverings of a spiritual being.Look Beyond Body Looks
If we are made up of the same thing then why waste our time looking for body beauty, so let’s look for intellectual beauty which shall help you in your personality development.One Big Family
Treat a Girl as your ‘sister’, a woman as your ‘mother’, a man as your ‘father’, and a boy as your ‘brother’.
Mind is The Real Culprit
Mind causes all the lustful feelings of attraction. As beauty is a concept of the mind. But with this same mind, we can create a counterstrike with positive thoughts through our Intellect.The Female Body Is An Illusion
Do not get fooled by this Maya of attraction for a beautiful/hot female Body. Like we keep searching on the Internet for hot models and pornstars.Prioritize Your Goals
Understand the needs in your life to be successful. E.g.- Decide what is more important Girls attraction or your studies. So, Choose wisely.
Avoid Bad Company
Do not be part of that group that discusses girls and other adult content like pornography.
Accept Natural Feelings
Accept feelings for the opposite sex are Natural But do not fantasize about them. Like having them as your girlfriend/boyfriend, or in a relationship, etc.
Remind And Practice
When the feelings for lust arise remind yourself of all the above points and practice them again and again. Go to crowded places and mix with the opposite gender and then test yourself.
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Kapil